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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I hope it's helpful, Artie. And it's good she seems to get what you're seeking.
It took me a long time to get past ex-MC, even though I was seeing Dr. T. I think it's normal when the relationship was that long and close. I do feel that I came out on the other side and can see the relationship differently now--more objectively in a way. And to be able to hold onto some of the positive parts instead of having it feel completely tarnished by the end.
So I hope you can get to that place, too--and I trust that you will.
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Thanks LT. Sometimes I feel like I'm there, but then she pops back into my head and I start missing her again and I start questioning what I did wrong. I just don't know how to let her go and stop ruminating. R said that 12 years is a long time with one therapist and can become unhealthy. Which of course is what happened with L.