zoiecat

I had a few episodes like that 2nd point with my t. I was like, get that genie back in the bottle PRONTO! It was okay for me to WANT it, but really not okay for him to DO it.

I think it speaks to our wanting safe love from our parents, and their not being able to give it, due to their immaturity etc. So we try and try and try to bargain with them (is it like gambling?) but are disappointed when they try to fulfill their own needs at our expense.