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Originally Posted by LadyShadow
I am glad Dr T. tried to clear some of it up, but I just want to say how inappropriate all of that was. I feel almost like your friend said, "Whose therapy session, was it?" But I am really glad you got some answers you needed; I just hope everyone is able to move forward from this. I love everyone's response on this thread from all different angles, sometimes I forget how useful this place really is.
Have a lot to discuss with T on Tuesday, myself. My emotions are absolutely all over the place. I am reflecting on some of my actions this past week and just want to shake myself, thinking "did you really put yourself through that, who is that helping?" ugh. I think back to when I was a kid often, wondering where this whole self-hatred thing really came from because I never did this to myself when I was younger.
Definite food for thought.
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Thanks, LadyShadow. I do find the mix of perspectives on here to be helpful. I used to feel attacked by those who didn't agree with me or give the sort of support I wanted. But now I'm at a point where I (usually!) can appreciate the different perspectives and do my best to learn from them.
I'm sorry you deal with self-hatred now. I do as well. I hope your T is helpful to you Tuesday.