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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
It's like if you split up with a spouse or a long-term partner and someone said, "Well, you never should have been together anyway" or "I never liked him." It can seem validating, but it's also very black and white. Because in a way, it feels like, "What was wrong with you to stay with this person so long?" Relationships are more complicated than that.
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This happened recently with the guy I see for meds. We also basically have a therapy session when we meet to discuss medication. He said my ex was a schmuck. While it was validating, and I agree, I also thought "what does that say about me that I stayed with this schmuck for so long".
Speaking of meds, has anyone tried Cymbalta/duloxetine? Did it make you doze off a few hours after taking it and does that eventually go away?