I know the feeling. Sometimes I just wanted to smack her in the head (figuratively, not literally) to open her eyes and I'm sure she wanted to do the same to me. But to work together on it? That was out of the question to her. I was the one with the problems according to her. I couldn't even get her to share the blame 50/50.

I pray for her from time to time and hope that God puts her face to face with herself but that doesn't help the heartaches any. I guess it's like trying to save an alcoholic who doesn't think they have a problem. Sometimes you just gotta let em go till they see the light for themselves. Although it's frustrating to sit helpless when your significant other needs help but can't see it, or admit it.

I'd tell you to hang in there but you gotta do whats best for you but I wish you all the best......