@raspberrytorte, please don't stop posting here! We love to hear from you and know you're alright, and like @Blueberrybook says, it's an important outlet when there's not many other places we can talk openly and honestly and get nothing but support back. I think the point is that you should censor yourself a little bit--be more general with the spicy stuff. I know a few of us have struggled with that (myself included), and before impulsively replying with potentially triggering or information a bit too private posts it's a good idea to read back and see if it's appropriate for the audience. If you need to get the details out, a journal could be helpful (you can keep it to yourself or share some snippets with pdoc/H to let them get into your mind more than just what they see).

We do care!