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Jul 15, 2024 at 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Jellyfish18
Hey, thanks for your reply, it means a lot.
But does this sound like I have issues with friendships? In the end, out of these few friends I have, I have no one I can rely on or that I can even believe that they like me.
She just has no respect for the time agreed. Is always late.
I know it's a private conversation, however I feel hurt she said those things like she agrees with him ("Yes I know" when he said something nasty regarding her staying at mine, and then "But now it is what it is". She even tried to glaze over it in case I heard her. I am just interested what exactly he said.
She also said she was sorry she didn't go with him to party in the capital instead, because she missed the concert anyway (this despite this being her fault).
I feel deeply rejected and sad, to be honest, like if anyone is with me, it is just because they have nothing better to do at that time. And this was my best friend. Just days ago she was reassuring me her ex-bf doesn't think anything bad about me and every time he insulted me, "he meant something else" (but I'm not crazy to think so).
(They remained friends after breaking up.)
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I think some people are good as activity partners and some for deeper stuff. The so called best friend might be ok for activities like clubbing. Friend from the hospital clearly isn’t up to too many activities so maybe just occasional talk.
I’d also start initiate less. Let’s see if they initiate. They might be agreeing to things they don’t really care about. And they lack maturity to speak up so they just don’t show up or leave early. Sound like teenagers to me rather than adults
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