Are you looking for social situations where you might be noticed?

It might be kind of hard, but don't do the usual bars, etc. Think outside the box.

Find places where there are sure to be women: aerobic dancing, tap dance lessons, theatre groups, ballet volunteer, even the YWCA. Get a job or training in a female dominated area; go to nursing school, work in a school or nursing home or hospital.

Be very respectful, though. Be there and make friends, but don't be a rutting fool.

I suspect at age 30 you are going to soon be finding there are a lot of women your age who are returning to single life for various reasons. Just being "nice" might be exactly how exciting they are looking for.

What do you think, ladies?

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