Very familiar with the energy vampires. It's not so much the conflict or hostility that bothers me, but I was at a point when I wrote this that I was starting to realize so many of my interactions were defending myself because in a lot of other people's eyes everything I do is wrong. This was a case I needed assurance that I was not a "bad person" for trying not to have raw batter in the middle of my pancakes, but if I'm honest I just wanted someone else on my side on something as stupid as this to think that guy was being a proper asshole. I get it, stupid little thing and this post was literally "is it okay that I was bothered by this conversation?"

I would love to make you some pancakes, but they will definitely not taste good by the time they get to Finland