I live with my husband and daughter. We're all disabled. I can't be alone or my anxiety and paranoia kick up. I'm getting a service dog to help with that. I'm also in the process of hiring a cleaner. My husband doesn't want one but we need to be able to pass inspection anytime they want to inspect. I also have an all in one air fryer with a bake button so I'm only making small meals and less dishes. I only have a limited amount of dishes.I get groceries home delivered through instacart. I only cook premade food which isn't healthy but it's what I can do if I was single I'd get healthy meals delivered to me. Until we get a washer/dryer I may do a laundry service. When we get a washer/dryer my dog will load it.

All these things make me sound lazy but I need the help if I want to keep my independence. Do what you need to do to keep as much independence as you can.