Could it be that you don’t have enough happening in your life so you are trying to fill your time with friends, who in return might be too busy.

At some point you were asking what people do in free time and what hobbies they pursue. Most people don’t have a lot of free time and don’t look for random hobbies to pursue- they have hobbies based on their genuine interests, not on others suggestions

You need to get yourself busy. What interests do you have? When you say people don’t want to talk to you, what kind of stuff you want to talk about? What kind of stuff you talked to total strangers online?