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Originally Posted by eskielover
Aren't there usually stipulations in a divorce visitation agreement that the kids have to have a bed of their own. You knew he had kids. Why would you want to move in when the whole thing is an inconvenience to your own life?
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The child technically has a bed and a whole bedroom to herself while dad sleeps on the couch. I am sure it’s perfectly fine.
I am somewhat taken a back though that dad now sleeps in bed with a 9 year old girl. What’s on the planet. There’s no need for that. She needs to be in a bed by herself. She needs privacy. It’s not a normal arrangement whatsoever. It’s not any kind of special circumstance like camping or stuck in a hotel room.
Dad isn’t a thoughtful parent. And he’s not thoughtful boyfriend either. Did he explain ahead of time that child will take over a bed on the weekends or that they’ll have a good time in a living room while girlfriend needs to sleep? This whole arrangement sounds immature, not thought through and haphazard