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ECHOES, when I emailed him I asked him for a session this week to discuss an important topic before the meeting. I did not tell him what the topic was so he doesn't know. He is not so fixated on the divorce now, so I felt I could have brought this topic to session and he would have discussed it. If I could have gotten a session... He just didn't want me to have a session this week, or wasn't able to give me one, for whatever reason--maybe he went out of town unexpectedly. Who knows.

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Oh I'm sorry, I misunderstood. I thought he knew why you were asking for the session. ... Still you did say it was important and you wanted to discuss it before the meeting. Yes I think he could let you know one way or the other. I can't imagine he would just not reply at all if he had no time available; that doesn't sound like him in the way you've described him. I think there must be some other explanation.

It is so hard, deciding finally to talk about something and then not having the opportunity to talk about it. But it will wait for you and T. It doesn't mean it shouldn't be talked about; it's going to be patient and wait for the optimal time when T is fully available.