How would you handle that – wouldn't you talk to them first and say hey please don't do that or at least give us the full-time that someone is paying for? I mean I've been at dentist appointments where they've had to be interrupted for a minute or two – but that isn't the thing that unhinges me. They usually say excuse me or something and I understand that things come up . I get that it does bother other people- I'm just saying that there's a range of how people respond And I think the first step is letting them know that you are someone that you doesn't like that. Honestly it really doesn't change things for me other than that I would be probably more polite to a speech pathologist than I ever would be to a therapist