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Old Jul 30, 2024, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
About the transference and age. L is 4 years younger than me and I have maternal transference with her. So age does not apply when it comes to any sort of transference. Also, Aunts can be younger than their nieces/nephews. Doesn't transference happen in most relationships anyways?

Yes, i think it does. And I was explaining to him at the time that it's not about the age. And how someone can also have erotic transference for a T who's not a gender to which the client is usually attracted. (I honestly wonder if I have a bit of that for R.) And Dr. T is only 7 years old than me, so can't really be my father, yet I have some paternal transference toward him (and ex-MC was only 12 years older--ex-T was my mom's age).