Do either of them help you with understanding your real life? As I understand it, The idea of a therapist is not to be on call all the time. I mean you saw the guy therapist already this week didn't you? I understand that you are struggling over things for some reason or other, but isn't some of therapy learning to be able to have some struggle without someone else right there? Therapy isn't going to stop struggles in life - just help you learn to deal with them.
Triangulation gets so very messy