Thanks, Darkest. I don't see him terminating me over this, and he said in the call that he's completely fine with my seeing R tomorrow. I just worry that he'll limit my ability to see her in the future. Hoping, if nothing else, she's still an option while he's away, which he will be in late August/early September (i already asked her about that).

I wonder if I can ask that we put off the conversation about that until next week, or until I've become more adapted to the move. Well, I know I can ask--more whether he'd be OK with that. Like I'd agree to not see her anymore between now and having that conversation. i just don't feel in the spot mentally/emotionally to have it right now.