Jon was having a pretty good day the other day but...we were on the couch kissing *blush*. He pulled back and I heard Jonny ask "Who's kissing me? Oh, it's the pretty girl!" and he pulled me to him and kissed me again. Then he stopped and said "I've never kissed a girl before. That's so cool!" Uh-oh. I drew back and we talked for a while until Jon came back forward. He was tickled that Jonny would sneak out to meet me in person. Turns out Jonny is about 14-15 years old. And he's getting a crush on me.

This gets a little prickly. I know that there should be no sexual contact with children, and that would mean Jonny. But Jonny's just about integrated, and I didn't notice that switch until after. He and the "big guy" are really close...How do I keep from doing anything if I don't find out until after he switches? I mean, I'm bound to get tripped up on that one once in a while...but I don't want to do anything bad. I mean, I know I need to stop as soon as I find out! But is there anything I can do to protect us BEFORE?

Can integration come undone? I'm just curious because he told me that he and Jonny are just about integrated, but Jonny has been out a few times on his own lately. They're still co-conscious, so that's good (I think). But if they're integrated, how can Jonny act independently? Or is the key phrase "just about"?

Or do I just have NO CLUE?
Is there anything more I can do to help? I like the idea about asking him to check with everyone if there's something he needs to know. That might be good. I know sometimes they talk amongst themselves, so nobody is completely isolated. Hmmm...