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Old Aug 01, 2024, 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Well, that went poorly. Started out fairly well, where he seemed compassionate, then declined. He actually chastised me for raising my voice at him at one point. Like "I'm not going to sit here and let you talk to me that way." I very rarely express anger (like, maybe I've raised my voice to him two or three other times). And I don't think it was particularly harsh. More later.

Unsure what I want to do about seeing him more. Maybe I need to take a week and think about it. Yes, I know what the answer should be. I just need time to think it through. (And I'm quite certain R wouldn't be an option.)
i’m sorry things didn’t go well, LT. i really hope you find the strength to take a step back and really examine things for what they are, not what you hope they could be. i realize you pay Dr. T, but that doesn’t mean he has no say in the way he does therapy. it’s not looking like he will ever be the t you so desperately want him to be. 😞
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