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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I think of what ex-T said once about relationships, though at the time, it was about me and H: How sometimes you need to turn up the heat in a relationship to move it forward--not like in a sexual way, but to express the anger, have a fight, etc. Maybe that's true here? And if it can't survive that, then I imagine it wasn't as strong as it seemed in the first place.
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Sure, but back to Ross and Rachel: they were at least in the same relationship. You and Dr T are not--each of you is defining relationship and what it should be differently.
Expressing the anger makes sense in a marriage when you're fighting on basically equal grounds. In this relationship, you're not fighting on equal grounds.