My sister doesn’t know how to pick partners. She’s just gave birth to a child a little over a week ago and her fiancés true colors are starting to shine through. Granted he is not as bad as the ex-who is a narcissistic controlling abuser that will never love his child more than he hates my sister, but he no prize either. I really need to figure out how I can take a step back and not be so involved. It’s just really hard when 2 kids are in the mix. I do not wish the new baby was not here. She is a double rainbow baby. I’m thrilled she is here. I’m just really sad my sister picked another asshole. I don’t get it. She is strong, beautiful, has a good job and a good head on her shoulders for most things except when it comes to this. I think the first guy really messed her up and now her judgement in men is clouded after that.