Lilac (my favorite flower btw) I don’t think any of us is 100% comfortable with ourselves 100% of the time. But hopefully you are comfortable in your relationship. Can you look at this from a different point of view for a moment, if she had an issue that you could help her with, wouldn’t you want her to tell you? I think when you’re able to trust her and talk to her about these things your relationship will go to the next level.

In my own life, the advice I give my children is “If you’re too embarrassed to talk to your partner about sex, you’re not ready for the sex.” I know your upbringing doesn't make this easy for you, but when you are parnters in a relationship, you discuss everything.