I am sorry about your situation with your ex. I understand you wanting to have a bed but there simply isn’t enough beds in the house. He can’t put 9 year old on a couch to accommodate you. He simply needs a bigger place if he wants to have live in girlfriends.

He’s out of his mind suggesting his daughter sleeps with you two. What’s his obsession with 9 year sharing a bed with him. It’s uncalled for. What kids’ mom thinks of this nonsense?

Is he recently divorced? I think he’s not ready for a relationship.