@Cantholdmyrage, it's not you. The site is a lot quieter than it used to be. I hope bluekoi is right and it's because it is summer time. This place was a powerful source of support when I really needed it. It hurts to see what's happening.
Does anyone have any ideas for solutions? I've tried posting topics I thought would stimulate discussion. For the most part I only got a few replies. I got discouraged and gave up.