Wow, ErinBear, how neat to read about your original struggle and see that it turned out quite well for you! I am so glad your counselor was able to help you. I strongly believe that I am on the same path with mine. Although is is still very hard for me to talk to him, I keep trying, and I find myself wishing I could speak to him when I am in upsetting situations. I think it is important that we simply give ourselves the time (and patience) to build trust. It won't come fast for most of us.

Thanks so much for sharing with us!