hi
not sure if this is the correct forum folder for this but
i have this extremely unhealthy need to please everyone around me which means that i do anything anyone asks me for them etc , without properly looking after myself
does that sound selfish?

i also seem to think a lot about what other people think of me

theres a few people i thot were my friends, but they are often ignorant and dont keep in touch as much - and i ask myself if it's because of me (i dont think i have done anything to deserve this)
do you have any advice about what to do?

thanks so much!