Sorry to hear that. What CANDC said is true. Being homeless would be worse. Especially with kids.
Op, try to get him to see a therapist & definitely get him on medication to reduce hus anger. He needs anger management classes.
Try to not be around him. Get a job when he’s at home. Retail jobs will hire most people. Especially if you have open availability.
I didn’t work for years. I had a few temporary hobs here & there. I finally found a job as a caregiver & it’s easy & low stress.
My husband yells at me less now. We always fought about money. He’s financially controlling too.
Look into something like that maybe. No experience is necessary. It’ll get you out of the house & you’ll have extra money for your kids & yourself.
Have your parents or relatives watch your kids.