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Old Aug 25, 2024, 01:31 PM
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For me, it's really about who. A hug may brings into focus what exactly the relationship is, and if it is querulous, undefined, unreciprocated, with hidden agendas, secrets and lies - how can the hug not radiate all that?

Whereas sex is like a handshake - the original use of which was to prove you held no weapons, so therefore proximity was safe. No such guarantee in a hug.