Thanks Scarlet,

The idea of it being 'like a tease' resonates with me.
I am frustrated that we have to repair the relationship between us, rather than focusing on the stuff that she skipped over in getting to the break.

It's not the therapist's business to take the client out of what they're trying to process, is it?

It's just something else to deal with, when I already have enough on my plate.

I know she feels that nothing has changed, and that is hard to deal with.