What you feel is what matters more so than what she thinks, believes, or understands. Like L not understanding spaces/objects with me. What you're going through is real Things have changed for you. Maybe they'll change back, but for now you're where you're at.

L always says she doesn't want to rob me of what I'm feeling and experiencing. So no, I don't believe a therapist should take the client out of what they're processing. That's a major part of therapy: the processing.