Susan,

Take the time to enjoy your family being with you......relax & just enjoy....don't put any expectations on the weekend that could end up creating anxiety that could make it less enjoyable for you. Your son't wedding should be a very very enjoyable occasion for everyone, & having all your family there is so awsome.......just sit back & enjoy & don't worry about things not being done....there is always time to get things done when there isn't family to enjoy.

Best wishes for your Son's successful marriage,
Debbie