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Old Aug 29, 2024, 10:54 AM
Revu2 Revu2 is offline
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2. One Up Brag—the ME Monster. “The one up brag is a real stinker.” And might shut down the whole topic.

Remedy: When feeling an urge to “top,” switch on stronger listening, praise the speaker and probe for a richer sharing.

This is much easier for me because of my drilling in "pacing" from neuro-linquistic programming (NLP). It's staying level with the speaker.

Guilty, but it's not a violation.

source prompt before I forget: The Best Article Ever Written about Bragging.
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Thanks for this!
unaluna