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Revu2
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Default Aug 29, 2024 at 10:54 AM
 
2. One Up Brag—the ME Monster. “The one up brag is a real stinker.” And might shut down the whole topic.

Remedy: When feeling an urge to “top,” switch on stronger listening, praise the speaker and probe for a richer sharing.

This is much easier for me because of my drilling in "pacing" from neuro-linquistic programming (NLP). It's staying level with the speaker.

Guilty, but it's not a violation.

source prompt before I forget: The Best Article Ever Written about Bragging.

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Thanks for this!
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