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Originally Posted by unaluna
I know i say the wrong thing a lot. As a result, i get put on the ignore list. Thats okay, i understand why.
OTOH, more than one member recently has remarked how QUIET the forums have been. May i suggest they review their ignore lists and see if they have grown too long? Maybe some people have learned their lesson.
I certainly apologize to all for my bluntness and carelessness in responding and hope to be more supportive in the future. I admit, i often do not understand the nature of a person's difficulties.
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I think you are being harsh on yourself.
I don't find your posts being anything other than good-intentioned and actually wanting to help posters shift from a helpless mentality to more empowering stance.
Your posts offer insight into how to move beyond the 'stuck' or 'powerless' stance some posters adopt. You do not enable people, you actually offer true support and I often find myself agreeing with you.... Unfortunately, many do not want to see any other viewpoint but their own.
Food for thought: is offering a different perspective 'wrong'?
I, for one, really appreciate your contributions.