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ScarletPimpernel
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Default Aug 29, 2024 at 11:58 AM
 
I'm mostly fine with her having babies. But to have an "accident"?!?! And having to deal with another leave after the last traumatic one? And having one so soon? She told me she didn't know if they'd have another. She wanted her children to have siblings. But she said she couldn't afford another. And now I'm going to have 3 months without support, her coming back only once a week telehealth for who knows how long now that she'll have a second: two under two. I know she didn't do this to me AND she sure didn't consider me when it comes to her having more children and how it affects me. Not that she would not have children, but the timeline, giving me a chance to get used to the idea, etc. Saying that she had an "accidental" pregnancy is such disrespect. And she's acting like none of this matters. That she isn't affected by this or by me. I don't believe she feels anything. She's probably just happy for herself that she's going to have a new bundle of joy.

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