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CANDC · Aug 29, 2024 at 03:11 PM

@kittlesonhr welcome to MSF. Sorry to hear you are depressed.

I hear you are feeling very dependent on having a relationship with someone, but I do not think flying out there would be a good idea financially or for the relationship, but I understand why you want to do that.

Something about the way he responds to you sounds very inconsiderate and possibly manipulative. He is not expressing empathy about your problem but making it all about them and accusing you of doing something to them.

Separation can make the heart grow fonder so maybe this time away will help but running after him may be inappropriate because he says he is on business and you may interrupt and he may be angry if you do.

It sounds like you are depressed. Ever consider talking to a therapist for talk therapy or a doc for med therapy.

A friend has been in relationships with someone that was manipulating them and did not really show compassion to them. They eventually saw that it was not helping them and left. But they had financial independence and so they could.

Hope you keep posting in one of the forums like depression Others suffer like you and can be supportive.

CANDC

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