Can you see how covert this is, though?

She gave DD an envelope of cash for back to school shopping

Never mind that’s she’s wiped out umpteen sources of savings and increased my monthly payments with interest in an unsecured mortgage. She’s taken in excess of $10,000 for the kids at this point, but showed up and offered her a phone and cash for shopping. And cried a lot.

And she brought a male friend with her.

And DD is going….. A new phone and shopping would be nice. And that’s an awesome car. And I miss my mom. It would be good just to have fun with her again.

And if I say anything and it gets back to her, I’m guilty of alienation of their relationship.

I’ve been sick to my stomach for 24 hours now.