I just blocked the bleep bleep from my phone. He kept calling me & leaving long winded messages on my phone. I didn’t call him back but he never got the hint.

He is autistic, but despite being a member of Mensa, he has the emotional intelligence of a toddler.

For most of my life, I’ve been self conscious about my weight & looks. I was bullimic in my 20’s & 30’s. He knew that, but he’d still call me fat & he kept on giving me unsolicited diet advice for years.

I then made things extremely clear, to never ever mention the word diet, diabetes or oat bran or oatmeal or constipation again.

He then mailed me a letter nagging me about my weight right after that! Wth????

Why would he not respect my boundaries & my feelings? He tried to make everything about him again like how he was able to loose weight with some new medication.

I don’t care. The point is that I specifically told him to never ever talk aboit diets or weight loss with me as it’s very triggering.

He obviously doesn’t care about my feelings or the fact that I get triggered easily.

So I blocked his email for 6 months. I warned him about that. He tried emailing me sooner than that & I ignored him.

Now I blocked his number. He has nothing better to do than go on stupid rants.

He doesn’t drive anymore as he totaled the last teo cars. He hardly has any friends.

He’s nasty, narcissistic, a bully, has a bad temper, selfish, needs attention all the time, a liar, rude, thoughtless & immature too.

I don’t care if he’s my dad. You just don’t keep on harassing & bullying someone who is extremely insecure about their looks & weight.

My parents act like the only thing that they care about is how I look like. It’s insulting. They don’t seem to think that I have any other good qualities.

I should’ve cut them both out oy lige years ago. They’re horrible mentally & emotionally abusive parents who were never really there for me growing up.