How do you define “safe” though, and how likely would whatever harm is would have to be before you’d go?

Do they think about how clients may confuse want with need, in either direction?

I’m asking because I’m in a spot where I wake up crying and yelling out, throwing clothes that no longer fit (started quetiapine recently) with a lot of aggression, and then I’m fine until I have to leave then I look for opportunities on my way, and I’m fine, and then every little trigger makes me think life is absolute shyt not worth living, but 2
Hours later I’m ok, ad infinitum. I never know how to answer the hospital Q because I never know if I will hurt myself and to what extent. I don’t feel like a little minor SH for me needs inpatient. He’ll, I’ve had attempts where I was just medically treated and d/c.

But I never feel what I think most people’s conception of “safe” is, from myself or others.