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Old Jun 21, 2008, 11:11 AM
concerned4stepkids concerned4stepkids is offline
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Well he is still at it...
Last week he made one twin mad for taking and reading her text messages each time she received one... I believe he thinks she was talking about him. Then the other twin came home very upset, because he told her that next week should have been our 20th anniversary which was the 18th.
The frustrated twins came home taking it out on everyone. I asked why they were mad at me for something their dad said and did? They both then started protecting their dad and said hateful things to me. They do this all the time, those that have witness them doing this are baffled as to why.

Here is what gets me about his anniversary statement.... He got married the day before we did the 17th, this week. (If I was the bride, I might not be too happy on the choice of date, but that's her problem) Why would he say something to my twin about the anniversary if he was getting married? Why care? I sure didn't.

The story continues... He tricked my oldest in talking to him by calling on her sister's phone, he asked to to come to the wedding the morning of it. She was angry at first but we talked and I told her that if she chose to go, it would be ok with me. She thought about it and went. Which is another story that will follow.

So I thought my ex would be happy and focused on his new life and bride.... I felt a sense of relief, that maybe he will just stop all the nonsense.
He had the twins for three days, they came home telling their older sister "dad" was talking about my fiance, saying he sees him all the time at the store with other women. Again, why would he do this? Does he not realize the damage he is doing to the kids or now with his wife? And even if he did, what concern is it of his? I think he was just trying to get a reaction out of me... again.

The wedding according to oldest...
Her dad only came up to her once, telling her he was glad she came and that she still had insurance, that he has the card and would give it to her... (so far no card) I have no doubt he canceled the insurance on her, after the fuss he made with his attorney.
She also said he gave a speech... that he was so happy to be with someone who loved him so much... basically on and on about how much she loves him and not a word about his love for her...
Dang it.

Yes, he has been VERY hung up on me in the past, even after he was engaged and not so long ago he was still begging for me back. What a jerk. I had to avoid talking to him because of this. Never missed him for a second. The comment about the anniversary makes me wonder if he is still hung up on me. Thoughts? Should I be worried he is going to continue? If so, how sad for his wife.

Oh btw- new brides sister called me days before the wedding... Asking me questions about him and telling me she had been checking him out.?!?!? She said they are in that honeymoon stage of impressing each other and really don't know each other very well. (everything he has done.. If she even knew the half of it) I said next to nothing as I didn't care or see how anything I said would be any good to anyone. The only thing I said was that sometimes people are different when they are with someone else and I hope that this is the case. She was a very nice woman, however, it makes we wonder if she is seeing through him. Not that I care any.