I’d say what I have now. I’ve been seeing my T over ten years. We meet a couple times a month, and she usually can squeeze me in when needed. We’ve been through it and she’s always remained boundaried while compassionate. She knows when to use humour to talk me off a ledge, and when she can push me a little bit. She allows emails, is open to trying things I want to try and she’s funny. I couldn’t have asked for a better T in this joirney.