That's why I liked L's plans: decades. She was to be my last therapist. She still says decades.

I don't want to have to start over. I literally cannot do this type of work with someone else. I can't go into the traumas again. It's too hard. So therapy would only become about current matters and skills. I guess T or someone like T would be good for that even the short-term aspect. And maybe that's all I need? My H and family say I don't need therapy anymore. That I'm stable enough. They say it's my sister who needs therapy, not me.

This is definitely one reason I'm staying for now. Because of the length of the relationship: now and in the future.