I'm in the same boat, Lost. I don't know how to respond yet, but am reading everyone's responses.

My problem is the way my relationship used to be with L was pretty much my ideal therapeutic relationship. But now... now there's only pain, so something isn't working. But I don't know if I can pinpoint what would help it. Less out of session contact? Less disclosures? Probably that. Reduce sessions? I really don't know what would help.