Did T explain to you at the time why she would only see you every 2nd week? Was that painful for you?
I’m just kind of shocked this is a thing. I thought the client would always get to decide how often they need to go and could reduce it when they felt ready and it would be a natural part of healing? It just seems cruel otherwise. Like we’re being told we are too slow to heal or we’re too needy and so we are getting reduced for our own good. It’s kind of shaming? I would never be able yo trust my T again if she did this to me. It would be the same as abandonment to me.
I can understand why you stay with L. I hope you can find a way to get through this leave with as little distress as possible. Your pdoc sounds insensitive