I'm a male and have a male T. Definitely don't want him touching me.

Sometimes I think we get along too well, and we (I) waste some time chit-chatting. He's never gotten me back on track; eventually I realise I'm going off on a tangent and then recover with, "So anyway..."

I'd also like it if he'd tell me if I'm being a jerk about something, like when I tell him I can't stand how my wife complains about how much pain she is. Or at least some way to cope, rather than just say that it's a lot to deal with.

The billing isn't done right. The payments from the insurance company pay off the oldest invoices, and when I finally go online to pay an invoice, it says 0 balance. It's very confusing.