Well, it's just dawned on me what has been missing in our discussions about my new realisation.

It's a big one, in terms of our relationship.

Empathy

I don't feel as though you understand the impact this realisation had on me.

I've had many conversations with other people as a result of your choice to work virtually over the summer, that I couldn't have with you online.

We need to talk about the feelings, and yet for that to happen, I need to know that you understand what I'm talking about.

Rational mind says it's been a while since we talked about it...and yet I've never had such a sense that you need a recap.