I went through fertility.. I'm also an adoptee so NO becuse of my awful experience growing up adoption wasn't going to work for me... I had a sonthrough ovarian dissection which can only be done once.. Then when he was 3 after fertility injections every day for 2 weeks I got pregent with twins... Went for a 3 month scan and they had died inside me... Waited a year and begin treatment again and got pregnant with twins again.. They're in they're 30s now.. Being adopted I felt robbed both ends... Had no real parents and no children.. Thank who ever it worked for me... But there were no soft options to replace any of this.. The psi of loss over the first twins.. Man that hurt... I understand no one can ever rely get what I went through... But when told "oh well you can adopt"... That lights my fuse... Children aren't a commodity.. Adopted Children aren't there to fix us... No other child is there to fix us. Thankfully my T listened to my pain...