Yes it's frustrating in the beginning... How did it work? My T in the begining would just smile... I guess only time gives us an insight into whether we feel different... Whether we feel it's worth continuing for us... I felt it was worth continuing.. I'd never been seen before and I felt seen... That alone kept be going... For 20yrs infact... Ask me now how did it work... It worked on a human to human level... It's be liked being asked how does motherhood work... Some things are better less said and experienced instead.