Yes and I know everyone meant well ❤️ I can’t say I really understand infertility myself but took it that what you want and need is to be able work through the difficult feelings / grief with L and that is complicated right now
I am glad you were able to offload some of the weight. I would imagine you don’t want her to think all is ok now when it’s not?
Both/and is always a really hard one for me to grasp too! I guess it’s the black and white thinking.