I'm so sorry you're navigating this, Scarlet.
I'm amazed that they would put information like that on a document that you would see.
It's not good for anyone's confidence to think 'Oh, great...X thinks I'm complicated.'
We're all complicated in our own ways, and it sucks that the notion would be a barrier to some therapists.
It's a different situation, but I'm sure I've been passed over for jobs because I have to tick the disability box for physical health reasons.
Sending hugs,
Lost
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